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2023 Author: Alex Livingston | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-11-26 11:39
The little affectionate cat is an urban legend, more often than not. When it becomes (beyond specific character cases) there is usually a reason and a solution.

Fear, premature removal from the mother: there can be many causes. Identifying those that make our Miao grumpy and unwilling to interact will allow us to intervene in a targeted and effective manner.
The causes
Is the cat not very affectionate? After having ruled out any pathologies clinics with a visit to the vet, we can try to find out if there are environmental and behavioral reasons behind this behavior:
- Meow might get frustrated, for example from the inability to defend their territory from what he interprets as dangers;
- Could feel the lack of predatory stimuli: let's not forget that its origins are wild;

- Be afraid and attack to defend themselves;
- Being removed early from the mother, and fail to recognize the difference between play and aggression;
- He may not look favorably on living with other cats, and enter into competition.
If on our own we are unable to identify the underlying cause of an unkind attitude towards us, bordering on aggression, it would be good to contact an experienced and qualified ethologist.
Let him get used to the news
An unwilling cat may need to adjust to some kind of novelty. The behavior of the adult cat adopted, for example, in a first phase could be conditioned by the new environment and a sense of general unease.

Changes generate stress in felines, so let's not worry if Miao reacts negatively: let's try to make sure that the disturbing element is no longer seen as a threat (including the new owner).
Give him love
Behind a not very affectionate cat, often and willingly, there is a atavistic need of love. Especially if he has just arrived home, he needs to know that we will take care of him, that we will love him forever.

Gradually, we try to spend time with him. Let's let him play and have fun; let him keep us company on the sofa and in front of the television. And if he asks for it, let him sleep with us. In short, let's tell him in every way that he must not be afraid of our presence, let's make him feel loved.
Let's let him follow us into the house
It is not always true that a feline loves solitude. There lack of human contact and companionship is often the basis of the behavior of the not very affectionate cat. If we reverse some attitudes and improve interactions, he may become as faithful and grateful as a dog. We let him follow us when we do routine housework; we do not consider his presence only at the time of daily meals: otherwise he will not feel stimulated to seek contact with man.

If you get scared or he doesn't feel comfortable, let's not force him: let him hide in the area of the house that feels safe. Let us not forget that violence and punishment only exacerbate any hostile attitudes. Conversely, if he shows willingness to have peaceful contact, we reward Miao with luscious positive reinforcement. We respect its space and its personality: only in this way will we have the opportunity to conquer it.
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